Remembering Edythe

A dear friend and mentor, Edythe Finley, died October 21, in Payson, Arizona.

Edythe held many positions in TOPS AZ 373. For many years she served as leader and co-leader. Most recently she was the greeter for our chapter. She made sure that everyone felt welcome and at ease. Every week she would seek members out, give them a hug and visit for a minute or two. She really made everyone feel special.

Edythe was a wonderful example and was one of the main reasons we have such a successful group. She was one of the first KOPS in our chapter. She encouraged others who reached KOPS status to stay involved in TOPS to set a good example for the others. Frequently we have more KOPS than TOPS weigh in!

Edythe made friends where ever she went. Many of her friends were friends from TOPS. Thursday morning after our meeting she could be found enjoying their company at breakfast. She attended many Fall Rallys, Fun Days, State Recognition Days and Retreats and made many friends from all over the state and nation. Her TOPS friends would send her little notes and cards. It was because she genuinely cared about them and was so thoughtful and was always sending notes to them. One time at a state KOPS function they had a contest as to who knew the most people there. Edythe won the contest hands down.

Her life was filled with service. She always made little gifts for the state officers and helped in any way she could. She crocheted an afghan to raffle off for a fund raiser for the state officers. She made "water beads" and plastic canvas weight chart covers for every new member and small articles for the members for holiday occasions. Many times she helped make decorations for state functions.

She always had a positive attitude, even through her health trials and Earl's death. She was amazing.

We will truly miss Edythe and her bright smiles and warm hugs at our meetings. It is our hope that we always remember her and follow her example of positive attitudes, service and especially loving and caring for others.